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A good conversation with your health care professional

Quality care starts with a good conversation. A good conversation is essential to provide you with the care that suits you best. Explore what you can do on your own.

1. Think in advance about what you want to ask or share 

Consider in advance what you want to share about your illness or symptoms and what is important for the healthcare provider to know. This way, you enter the conversation well-prepared and ensure that you don't forget anything.

2. Discuss what is important to you

The healthcare professional explains the possible care options, ensuring you are well-informed about different choices and their implications on your daily life. Choosing not to undergo treatment or adopting a wait-and-see approach is also a valid option.

Since a treatment can impact your life, the healthcare professional inquiries about your expectations regarding care. Share your preferences and articulate what holds significance in your life. What does your current life look like? What activities do you wish to continue?Your opinion and that of your healthcare professional are equally significant. Therefore, be open and honest about your preferences—what you want or don't want. Express any concerns or doubts you may have.

3. Decide together on the care that suits you best

You can make the final decision together with your healthcare professional or let the healthcare professional make the decision. In any case, express your preferences. It is crucial that you agree with the choice and receive the care that suits you.

Do you need more time? Often, there's no need to decide immediately. Take some time to think about it at home or discuss it with your loved ones. If you still have doubts, you can always request a second discussion.

Tips for a good conversation

Before the conversation

Write down your questions in advance. What do you want to know specifically? You can use the three good questions for this. These are also available for children:

  • What are my options?
  • What are the advantages and disadvantages of those options?
  • What does this mean in my situation?

If you know what is important to you in your life, you can discuss it more easily with your healthcare professional.

During the conversation

  • Bring pen and paper so you can take notes during the conversation.
  • Invite someone to accompany you to the conversation if you find it comforting. Alternatively, include someone online in the discussion.
  • Record the conversation so you can listen to it later.
  • Ask questions if you don't understand something.
  • Consider using a decision aid. Sometimes, decision aids or informational cards (in the form of a brochure or website) can be helpful during the conversation with your healthcare professional. They provide information about a disease or condition and outline the pros and cons of potential treatments. Ask your healthcare professional for advice.
  • Request the healthcare professional to summarize the information at the end of the conversation. Alternatively, briefly recap what you've heard. This ensures that you both have a clear understanding of the discussion.

After the conversation

Check your online medical record. To make informed decisions together, it's important that you are well-informed. In "Mijn Erasmus MC" (Your Erasmus MC), you can access your personal and medical information. This includes your treatment plan, results of examinations, letters from your healthcare providers to referring physicians, and your medication overview.

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